It's never a good idea for a man to reveal his true motives. Not even under the guise of "being truthful," because there is such a thing as Too Much Information. And what girl isn't up for a little subtle game playing as part of what they sign up for when they start the chase, the cat-and-mouse scenario? Anyway, no one wants to feel cheapened. If you're on a date, looking longingly into the girl's eyes, and say something like, "I don't really want a relationship, I just want to fuck you," she'd have to have a lobotomy to stick around (unless of course, she, too, is going through a slutty phase and planning on just using the guy for her pleasure, in which case, jackpot!). But even if that's what you untimately want, the guy for the night, to actually say it out loud is probably a little too taboo, especially for someone you barely know.
I was a little put off. The whole sleazeball thing just doesn't turn me on. I really didn't *need* to know that 90% of the total women (12) have been in the last year. I also don't have to be told, "Baby, I'm dynamite in bed." That's my line! See, there's a double standard. If the man says something "truthful," it's kinda shady, but if the woman does? She's condifent and sexy and the liklihood of her getting laid rises considerably. Men that know what they want are just overbearing, insensitive, and self-centered. Who wants that? Some women, I'm sure. And any man with enough money could probably get away with saying whatever he wants. But that's a very small portion of the population. Most people should just try manners.
So what have we learned? Sex is a dance. There's more to getting a girl into bed than saying, "Hey, let's go have some sex." Nothing is ever that easy... or is it? (All I know is, I wouldn't sleep with a guy who brags about being a slut. That's just asking for trouble.)
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